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 When you chose a path in life, sometimes (mostly all the time) you never know where the path is going to lead you. Usually at the back of your mind you have this deep subconscious feeling that you know where your going and it’s just a matter of the universe to guide you in the direction of your desires. I found out yesterday that the film I had been working on for over a year requires 15 more minutes added in order for certain things to happen in the world of business. The cool thing is, is that I’m taking it with such positive faith that I know it’s a blessing. The reason is irrelevant, but I knew there had to be some changes, I’m humble enough to admit that the first film I ever made it was a mere ( just do it and get er done attitude.) Now I’m learning about how it all works from people that care , and having to spend some time in California with be beautiful. Funny thing is, so many of us in life are always trying to rush somewhere when they only have to just be. People ten to live way more in the past and future than in the only moment that holds any reality (the present) it’s no joke that it’s the greatest gift of all because you are living in the midst of pure creation. That’s where it all takes place. Today I’m going to slow down more(yeah right!) Today I will be more gentle on my self. Today I won’t waste a second. Most important of all, today I will inject faith and happiness into as many people I can by my actions. There’s no need to live in fear, life when we live fully is the masterpiece you create. Your destiny is in your own hands. Sending much love and positivity to all, off I go again. 
Namsate. RJP

new week, new you!

 Almost everything we do in life comes down to “habits’s” good and bad they are tough to crack. Life is truly a rhythm that we can flow with when we set intentions and goals. I’ve been really trying to simplify my life lately by having the long term goal of optimal health in my mind, but only writing down exactly what I’m going to be doing the next day the night before. For instance I recently incorporated yoga into my life. And what a blessing I’ve gotten from the rewards this ancient practice has given me thus far. Pushing my body in intense heat only goes to show how resilient are bodies are under intense situations. And the benefits of yoga go way beyond getting in physical shape, it build tremendous mental focus. So having sound health is always at the top of my list because that way I can be at my best for others. When I get out of the rhythm (alignment) I don’t feel great. Going to bed each night comfortably tired from following through with all my intentions( I’m not saying you have to do yoga, but take at least 20 to 30 min to really focus on YOU!) daily goals are easy. Meet with people outside of work that will open your mind and make you think higher. Don’t ever be afraid to dive all in to projects and always give 100 percent, that way there’s never anyway for self judgement. Make this week awesome, and keep building on the weeks ahead.
Much Love . RJP

Daughter mom relations.

There’s nothing in the world more important than family and friends (people we love and care about) As we get older and have our own kids we are faced with the hard fact that our babies grow up. The relationship between father/son is another topic that I will elaborate on tomorrow. But today it’s Mom and Daughter time. It’s so important to keep the channels of communication wide open. I know as mothers, especially the ones I talk too, try their best at times, but to no avail their daughter(s) seem hard to reach. Emotionally withdrawn and many times hard to understand. The best way I can sum up this painful energy at times is to realize that we are in the midst of a massive generation gap. The social media frenzy is out of hand at times, and the real world seems far gone and less simple. So maybe that’s the answer to many of the issues between any trouble between mom and daughter. Number one is acceptance that this is a generation of massive expansion. Self expression can be difficult when things are rapidly changing so fast. A simple I love you in a thank you card once a week under the pillow. Try and see the world from their perspective. Be gentle on yourself and no matter what stay strong in your own beliefs. We sometimes wish our kids could just see (it) from our vantage point but it’s a tough one. Tough love is also something that has to come into play at times or parents get walked on. Just remember we all have our own dreams, and paths to walk. The best you can do at times when you see your daughter make poor decisions is pray for her and just lead by example. Try not to try and let things flow. All the very best to the families of the world. Love is always the answer even though it’s not always easy….

NO NEED FOR GAMES FOLKS

 A lot of us do it! Mind games are a quick way to a toxic relationship that brings down both individuals and in most cases close friends and family that surround us. There’s an old saying- (TEMPTATION CAN MAKE A FOOL OUT OF ALL OF US.) How true! Speaking from past experiences I know that nothing ever ends up good in these kinds of relationships, yet we become addicted to them. It’s almost like there has to be a winner and a loser when heated battles come to the surface. People get hurt, we say we love you and would do anything for these people we are involved with, but how sad that getting along just isn’t in the cards if both people aren’t vibrating on the same frequency. Love is the eternal elixir, it’s what breaths life and vitality into our being. It’s the source we came from in the first place. But in many cases environment plays a big factor. We put up shields (defence mechanisms) to guard ourselves from being hurt. Maybe it was our parents that showed us these behaviours? Or perhaps we bring in old relationships into the present. My advice- There’s no time to waste on anger, jealousy and criticism. If games are becoming too much to handle and the hurt is coming from the mind games, it’s a good idea to separate yourself no matter how attracted you are to this other individual. If we are humble, take care of ourselves first (self love) Then we have all the tools to love somebody else the same way. Never be in a rush. Your never alone. Focus on that which you desire and deserve. Time is precious, it’s the chequer board of life, your opponent is time and people that we allow into our experience. Think beautiful thoughts of love and stay in the state of gratitude even when it seems like your world is falling apart. I don’t have to remind you that there’s always way worse off. Remember (healthy mind, healthy body, healthy spirit….) 
NAMASTE. RJP

Transition into Rhythm

 It’s very difficult to put words to an experience at times. Many times in the recent past it seems for me, I’m sure this resonates with millions of others enjoying the roller coaster ride of life. When your in the midst of a moment and you become so aware to the people beside you, the sky the landscape and sounds. Well, after recently riding 565 km across the beautiful countries of Vietnam and Cambodia I sit writing here this morning reflecting like it was some sort of dream. A special dream at that! Emotionally packed full of laughter and tears. But the one thing that stood out in my mind the most was the blessing to watch peoples paradigms change over the course of the trip. It was as if there was a big energy shift the moment we crossed into Cambodia from the Vietnam border. I’ve spoken to many people that I shared this experience with and they feel much the same. I did a similar ride last year and it was equally as special, just like everyday we live is one to be cherished and honoured. This year though, my eyes were more lets say “wide open”. Somebody asked me what the highlight of the ride was. I can’t give an answer to that question. The main thing was that for a brief space of time the group I was with were able to will our way across  two countries for a cause that will benefit because of our self determination and all the support from donators, family and whoever tuned into what we were doing. it’s funny how I thought to myself during this ride “I wonder how many people are riding a bike across SE Asia for human trafficking and sex slavery?” It didn’t make me feel special or extraordinary..It made me feel like it was a gift, I was proud. I had one day where a migraine headache came on. It was the last day of the ride where we had to ride 95kms. I woke up feeling great, and was dedicating that last day to a world filled with peace and no violence. An hour in I got vertigo and lost my speech. This wasn’t out of the norm as I’ve been dealing with migraines since I was a kid. I think I drank 3 litres of water straight, prayed my butt off, and within a half an hour I was peddling with force and purpose. usually my headaches take at least 2 days to leave my head. This day I was lucky? Whatever the case, I feel privileged to have given a piece of my heart along with everyone else involved. I wouldn’t change a thing…The first few days were tough getting back into the rhythm of life. This wasn’t a vacation! It was a trip though that defined a different meaning to everyone who shared the experience together. Cambodia I will be seeing you again sooner than you think ! 
Thank You, Ryan J P.

Curiosity

Curiosity!

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Love Papa

 

It’s the end that kills you!

That fictitious belief that you are working toward an end goal!

That there is a pot of gold at the end of the rainbow.

Or that there is some point to all this.

We are not here to win anything!

And you can’t take it with you!

There is no prize for having the most!

Only for seeking what is next.

Make curiosity your goal!

Seek only that, which draws your attention!

The raven doesn’t differentiate between a bottle cap and a gold coin!

He just likes the shiny surface.

Follow your curiosity.

It will lead you home!

Love Papa.

 

Jim McKillop

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565 km’s with heart!

 Like most undertakings in life we don’t know exactly how they are going to play out. There’s always unexpected turns of events that surprise us in anything we do. Especially when we decide to put our lives on hold for something so worth while. My decision to do this beautiful, physically and mentally demanding test came in two parts. Part one: making the choice to ride for girls that have been either sold or trafficked into the nasty realities of the sex trade. That was the purpose! The reward that came along with the purpose was part two: This part held the most power in not just my heart, but for the riders involved, their families and people that watched from city streets and country side roads, some of them wondering maybe “who are these people” and why? The why was found when two lovely spirits joined our group after crossing the Vietnam border into Cambodia  (Theara and Vouern) The two girls are survivors and global change agents against the fight against modern day slavery. That wasn’t who they were as people though. As people they are just like us, and I’m proud to say on behalf of the group of riders we rode with that love in our hearts and just a willingness to make a difference, they are one and the same. Even though in their lives they’ve had to surmount a lot more than the average of any person on this earth, they have a love inside them that just radiates with a relentless willingness to change others that have gone through similar circumstances . I don’t want to make a list of names because that would take away from the full significance of what we rode for. We rode for not only our own beliefs but for the countless other people that are effected by this global issue. As much emotions were shared, many happy times were shared as well. After exposing our feelings to one another a transmutation of energy shifted. People let their guard down more and showed the pure humanness that we all share as a global community. Dancing, singing in dirty bike gear…All just acting as an alliance of love towards a goal that seems hard to fight at times when many of us in the world don’t get to see certain aspects of what the severity of the crime inflicts on the human heart. I could go deeper, but I’m going to use this life experience to just be more present, ask more questions and no matter what just make everyday count. I would like to take this opportunity to thank all the people behind the scenes that make this wheel turn. Lives are being changed through people that aren’t on the bikes as well, it’s people like Somaly that is dealing with government officials, people that devote their time to help nurture the newly suffered and propel the ones that are ready to be reintegrated into society to thrive like they deserve. I’m proud of everyone I cried with, doesn’t it feel good just to make a stand for what’s right! Today is a good day for many, but for many it’s not, it’s one of suffering . But to know that dents are being drilled with force into a crime that will one day come to an end, hopefully in our lifetime, wouldn’t that be something amazing!! Don’t waste time, don’t be afraid. The eyes and souls the riders saw brought out more momentum. It doesn’t have to be a bike ride, but maybe,,,just maybe see what you can do to help someone out today that needs your help.
LOVE RYAN. 

Determination to make an impact.

As these lines are being typed I’m on day off from riding the 545 km journey from Vietnam to Angkor Wat Temple in Cambodia. Tomorrow the group of riders cross the border into Cambodia with excitement and anticipation to ride with love and compassion, backed by a sincere desire to be helpful. I’ve watched the group grow as a team since our start. I’ve been very blessed to ride with some amazing people who radiate awesome intentions to this cause. The open spaces and villages we ride through is an experience that is a once in a life time experience for many of us that we will remember for the rest of our lives. The sweat and energy that we as a group put into this journey is all put into perspective when we see who, and why we are riding for. The ride is the easy part. The emotions that are shared is the blessing, and the help that goes towards the cause is the gift we can all give with the generous donations from our friends, family and other people in the world that care about this epidemic. I stand proud with this team of riders. My gratitude goes out to the organized effort involved in the ride that will make a change for the KIDS!!! The down time today has been great, but I can speak on behalf of all the riders that we are ready to keep pushing on with intense desire to just be of useful service. As usual, friendships are made, learning about what drives others is shared. And the best part is, not only are we being of service, we get to see countries that have so much beauty and wonderful spirits spread far and wide. Tomorrows Valentines day, it’s a day to share LOVE, so all of us as a team are sending a happy Valentines to the world as a whole. 

READY TO ROLL (YEAR OF THE SNAKE)

Today was spent getting mentally prepared for what’s to come, after a walk around the city of Saigon and visiting the old war museum which I couldn’t bare to be in for more than ten minutes, the group piled into the support vehicles and drove 3 hours outside the capital to Ben Tre. It was a pleasant trip, relaxing for most taking naps in the vans before we saddle up tomorrow the 10th (Vietnam’s New Year, Year of the Snake) 90km..Everyone is very excited! we got fitted for our bikes and are ready to roll!. 

FEB 9th READY TO ROLL

 Today was spent getting mental prepared for what’s to come,  After a walk around of the city of Saigon visiting the old war museum which I couldn’t bare to be in for more than ten minutes the group piled into the support vehicles and drove 3 hours outside the capital to Ben Tre. It was a pleasant ride, relaxing for most taking naps in the vans before we saddle up tomorrow the 10th (Vietnams New Year, Year of the Snake) 90km..Everyone is very excited! we got fitted for our bikes and are ready to roll!. The ride displayed beautiful rice paddies, rivers and deltas with water buffalos along the river beds. Tomorrow we will be cycling in the heart of the fascinating Mekong Delta. I’m so looking forward to the exciting ride with a purpose instilled inside all our hearts. The group has become close already. Age doesn’t play a part on this journey, all the people involved have the look and excitement in their eyes like a bunch of kids. We will all be there for one another throughout the journey, and the best part is, is that the unexpected is in the secret of the adventure.
Love and compassion to all.  RJP and, and all the riders involved.