A lot of us do it! Mind games are a quick way to a toxic relationship that brings down both individuals and in most cases close friends and family that surround us. There’s an old saying- (TEMPTATION CAN MAKE A FOOL OUT OF ALL OF US.) How true! Speaking from past experiences I know that nothing ever ends up good in these kinds of relationships, yet we become addicted to them. It’s almost like there has to be a winner and a loser when heated battles come to the surface. People get hurt, we say we love you and would do anything for these people we are involved with, but how sad that getting along just isn’t in the cards if both people aren’t vibrating on the same frequency. Love is the eternal elixir, it’s what breaths life and vitality into our being. It’s the source we came from in the first place. But in many cases environment plays a big factor. We put up shields (defence mechanisms) to guard ourselves from being hurt. Maybe it was our parents that showed us these behaviours? Or perhaps we bring in old relationships into the present. My advice- There’s no time to waste on anger, jealousy and criticism. If games are becoming too much to handle and the hurt is coming from the mind games, it’s a good idea to separate yourself no matter how attracted you are to this other individual. If we are humble, take care of ourselves first (self love) Then we have all the tools to love somebody else the same way. Never be in a rush. Your never alone. Focus on that which you desire and deserve. Time is precious, it’s the chequer board of life, your opponent is time and people that we allow into our experience. Think beautiful thoughts of love and stay in the state of gratitude even when it seems like your world is falling apart. I don’t have to remind you that there’s always way worse off. Remember (healthy mind, healthy body, healthy spirit….)
NAMASTE. RJP